🍒 Anonymous Question: How to be more assertive with boundaries and needs? 

Practice makes....better than it was before!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Quarantine dating? Dating apps? 

Ah, tinder, where our hopes go to die.

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🍒 Anonymous Question: How to stay engaged when masturbating? 

Flying solo is great! But engaging with our bodies in the moment is a practice in mindfulness, and can be really hard (ha ha) in the moment!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Tips for trans and cis folks with a smaller dick? 

Such a great question! I’m biased answering this question- small dicks are my favorite dicks. 🥳

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🍒 Anonymous Question: How do I get started in kink? 

Honestly if there’s not a kink instance yet then there should be... kinksters would love mastodon. They already really like twitter, and we’re just better twitter!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Sex Ed Book Recs? 

Here’s the link to the list I mentioned:

There are also TONS of great sex ed podcasts out there! And amazing educators doing work on instagram! Most of the educators I follow are kink, disability, or racial justice centered- if you have questions about them lemme know and I can recommend some!

My only other rec is a shoutout to Ericka Hart M.Ed. (@ ihartericka on instagram). They teach me more every day!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: How to be okay with being vulnerable with others, especially if you have trauma around vulnerability? 

Another stellar question- and the fact that you asked it proves you’re already on the right track! Recognizing our boundaries is the first step to respecting them!

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Anonymous Question 🍒: Dating while autistic? 

Okay, I’m back! I got a kitten appointment for the cutie in 30 but I’ll be answering questions for the rest of the night! Keep sending them!

This is a super valid question, especially considering COVID!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: How can I make casual sex less awkward? 

I hear this question all the time! The messaging we get around hookup culture and how to communicate during sex is so inadequate!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Is it normal for libido to be inconsistent? 

Short answer: YES! Long answer: also yes.

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Pregnancy risk for people on testosterone? 

There are no studies showing testosterone is an adequate birth control measure! Safety first!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: When does porn and fantasy become problematic? 

I love discussing porn! Let’s get into it!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Tips for eating out someone with a vagina? 

love to give sex tips! most how-tos around vulvas are filled with truly terrible advice.

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Is it really uncommon for trans women to enjoy topping? 

Another fantastic question!!

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AMA Sex Ed edition! 🍒 

A great first question! 🌟 How can you tell the difference between safe and unsafe sex toys?

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block recommendation, an idiot in my dms 

lmaoing at this fool

love that they’re on switter, it kinda ads to the tomfoolery.

they also reported me which is officially the first honey.town report, a tru milestone for my instance. 😚

happy !!! 😽
this is callie, she’s about 4 months old and we found her in a trash pile 2 months ago! she loves tuna, playing fetch, and neck scratches!!!

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