AMA Sex Ed edition! 🍒 

Hi y’all! Happy Thursday! 🌟

I really miss doing anonymous questions with my students so here’s a chance to ask any/all questions about sex, health, or relationships you may have had on your mind!

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Unlike my students, you can also ask me personal questions and I’ll answer within reason!

If y’all really enjoy this, I’m also happy to make this a regular thing! 🍒

AMA Sex Ed edition! 🍒 

A great first question! 🌟 How can you tell the difference between safe and unsafe sex toys?

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Is it really uncommon for trans women to enjoy topping? 

Another fantastic question!!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Tips for eating out someone with a vagina? 

love to give sex tips! most how-tos around vulvas are filled with truly terrible advice.

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🍒 Anonymous Question: When does porn and fantasy become problematic? 

I love discussing porn! Let’s get into it!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Pregnancy risk for people on testosterone? 

There are no studies showing testosterone is an adequate birth control measure! Safety first!

🍒 Anonymous Question: Is it normal for libido to be inconsistent? 

Short answer: YES! Long answer: also yes.

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🍒 Anonymous Question: How can I make casual sex less awkward? 

I hear this question all the time! The messaging we get around hookup culture and how to communicate during sex is so inadequate!

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i’m reaching capacity for right now, so i’m going to take a break! feel free to keep sending in questions, all of them will eventually be answered! 🍒

sidenote, my venmo is @ juicebat, shoot me a tip for the free labor & expertise if you have the coin!

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Anonymous Question 🍒: Dating while autistic? 

Okay, I’m back! I got a kitten appointment for the cutie in 30 but I’ll be answering questions for the rest of the night! Keep sending them!

This is a super valid question, especially considering COVID!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: How to be okay with being vulnerable with others, especially if you have trauma around vulnerability? 

Another stellar question- and the fact that you asked it proves you’re already on the right track! Recognizing our boundaries is the first step to respecting them!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Sex Ed Book Recs? 

Here’s the link to the list I mentioned:
bookriot.com/100-sex-education

There are also TONS of great sex ed podcasts out there! And amazing educators doing work on instagram! Most of the educators I follow are kink, disability, or racial justice centered- if you have questions about them lemme know and I can recommend some!

My only other rec is a shoutout to Ericka Hart M.Ed. (@ ihartericka on instagram). They teach me more every day!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: How do I get started in kink? 

Honestly if there’s not a kink instance yet then there should be... kinksters would love mastodon. They already really like twitter, and we’re just better twitter!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Tips for trans and cis folks with a smaller dick? 

Such a great question! I’m biased answering this question- small dicks are my favorite dicks. 🥳

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🍒 Anonymous Question: How to stay engaged when masturbating? 

Flying solo is great! But engaging with our bodies in the moment is a practice in mindfulness, and can be really hard (ha ha) in the moment!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Quarantine dating? Dating apps? 

Ah, tinder, where our hopes go to die.

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🍒 Anonymous Question: How to be more assertive with boundaries and needs? 

Practice makes....better than it was before!

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okay, time for another break! whew! 🍒

thank you to y’all donating to my venmo (@/juicebat), i’ll be finding out if i lose my job and health insurance on wednesday so i’m pretty stressed about money at the moment & every bit helps!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: How do I transition a relationship from monogamous to polyam? 

alright! back in it with another super common question! there are lots of better folks to answer this than me (folks who have been in successful poly relationships for longer) but....here’s the advice i do have!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Do I have an onlyfans? 

Not yet, but it’s in the works!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: How do you communicate during sex without killing the mood? 

I’d argue communicating is what MAKES the mood in bed! 🤤❤️

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Do you have any thoughts on cybering? 

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Favorite porn that you’ve seen lately? 

You’re getting some serious no-holds-barred exclusive shit here, but....

I’m a huge slut for power dynamics and people being “helplessly aroused and overwhelmed” and being taken care of.

I’m more big on reading my porn than watching it, because I get xtremely eeked out by the chance of people being harmed, but I LOVE erotic comics and stories! I’m a huge perv!

Example: this delightful luis4land comic below. 🤤 (CW: choking)

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Loud sex, thin walls? 

Most people fuck, and some of us are noisier than others! What happens, happens, and try to be considerate and plan ahead!

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🍒 Anonymous Question: Advice for overcoming anxiety around sex for someone with little sexual experience? 

You’re the only person living your life, and there’s no such thing as running late. Take your time! ❤️

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@bee this thread is awesome, thanks so much for sharing your wisdom!!

🍒 Anonymous Question: Loud sex, thin walls? 

@bee I will just say that lockdown, an old building, and a roomate who is a fully remote worker really cramps my style right now 😂😂😂

🍒 Anonymous Question: How do I get started in kink? 

@bee your Anon could follow some folks in kinky.business, I haven't seen much of the community yet but it seems like a cool place from my initial foray :eyes: 🖤

🍒 Anonymous Question: How to be okay with being vulnerable with others, especially if you have trauma around vulnerability? 

@bee a good resource on this is Clementine Morrigan's work they're on insta. some of it is about polyamory but also just sex n trauma in general

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